Why is it that some women attract men like magnets whilst others ( the fellow Bridget jones’s of this world) seem to act more like insect repellents to men. Well there’s the obvious factor that some women are naturally more attractive than others, but there’s more to it than just attractiveness. I’m sure most of you can think of someone, who you wouldn’t necessarily rate as exceptionally attractive, but yet they seem to attract heaps of male attention. Why is that? Well ladies.. it comes down to two main factors. Confidence and seduction.
The art of seduction is all about knowing how to, firstly attract a man’s attention, and secondly how to turn them on! However before being able to perfect seduction there’s on massive factor which will greatly impaction your seduction power. Confidence. Confidence is sexy! If you believe your sexy than others will believe it too!
If you’re lacking in confidence, then try and change it! It’s no good attempting to seduce if you don’t feel sexy. One way that you can try boosting your confidence is through paying extra attention to your image. They say ‘if you feel good inside you look good on the outside’ well that can work the other way round as well! If you know you look good on the outside then a newly found confidence will come from within. Make some subtle changes that’ll be sure to get you noticed. Your confidence levels will be flying sky high in no time.
- Later yourself in a seductive, sexy perfume – A seductive fragrance will draw in men, like candy to a baby.
- Wear dark sexy eye makeup - Eye contact is key for seduction, so highlighting your beautiful eyes with dark smoky makeup will draw attention to those mysterious eyes.
- Wear something red – Red to bulls = danger. Red to men = sex. Wear something red and he’ll have only one thing on his mind.
- Heels – Slip on some skyscraper heels and feel the power slip into your hands. Being in control will give you that extra confidence boast
- Invest in some sexy lingerie that flatters your figure- Nothing makes you feel sexier than brand new underwear that emphasises your voluptuous figure!
- Wear a LBD on your date- Pick an LBD that shows off your curves. Don’t worry about it being a safe option cause all he’ll be thinking is how he can’t wait to rip it off.
Once you’re feeling confident and one hundred per cent sexy then the seduction can begin.
- Always use lots of eye contact (just don’t stare)
- Smile and laugh ( this will make you appear friendly and more approachable)
- Be playful
- Start with light flirting (e.g tell them you like what their wearing)
- If they’re responding well, up the level of flirty (e.g go from I like what you’re wearing to .. but I’m sure I’d like what’s underneath a lot more)
- Don’t be too eager, leave it at that. Make them wait so they want you more, swap numbers but go home alone
- Arrange a date
- Engage in some light sexting to build up anticipation, be suggestive but not blunt
- Use your body language to show you like them, touch their hand, etc
- Gradually build up to sex don’t jump in straight away, start with something playful like a strip tease… and leave the rest up to your imagination.
