So you have decided that sex toys are no longer smutty things you are not allowed to admit having or perhaps you have just been overwhelmed by the range available, whatever has brought you to the decision to invest in a sex toy we aim to provide a guide that will help making your first purchase a successful one. An investment I hear you cry? Surely that is a bit of a leap? Well no actually, a good sex toy that is well looked after will last you in good stead for years to come (no pun intended…well maybe a little). As for the return you will get from your investment, well aside from the obvious hours of fun, scientifically speaking each orgasm brings you a shot of serotonin which is the brain’s happy drug and a happy brain leads to a healthy body and mind-set. You will be less likely to snap at colleagues, more focussed if less frustrated and less likely to binge eat/drink or smoke so yes, a less frustrated you is more likely to succeed and we feel the humble vibrator should take some of that credit!
For those who are new to shopping for sex toys, it can seem like a rather daunting task. On the one hand you have shops in the highstreet where you not only may bump into people who you may not necessarily want to know your latest purchase, but also you face a perusal of a backroom where strings of giggling teenagers are being ushered away by tutting store clerks on one side while on the other an overeager middle aged store assistant is desperately making a bee line towards you in order to make her commission quota for the month. Alternatively there is still the stigma of the other less reputable adult stores that can be found which still boast blacked out windows and a flashing neon XXX sign above the door – usually with one of the x’s broken and tape over the blacked out windows where they have been kicked in by less than savoury characters on their way back from a pub – and that’s just the outside! Okay this may be a slightly bleak picture but lets face it, the stereotype exists because there are a fair amount of stores who still conform to this outdated image. There is little worse when making your first purchase of a sex toy than to be embarrassed. Embarrassment is not only going to put you off ever repeating the experience but will probably make you impulse buy, or rather impulse grab – seize the least offence item off the shelf, hurry to the cashier whilst stumbling over lingerie that has fallen off the shelves and then (whilst trying not to touch the dubious glass counters) look nonchalant to the cashier as they bag up your purchase until you realise in your haste that you are putting your cash card in the card reader upside down and then, “Christ what’s my damn pin again, dammit why is everyone staring at me”. Horrific scenario isn’t it, which is why the internet is the sex industry’s best friend.
Professional, discreet sites like SecretPassion.co.uk allow someone to make an informed decision about which product will be right for them all from the comfort of their own home. Our products all carry detailed descriptions and our clear pictures with zoom functionality allow you to closely scrutinise the product for as long as you need to make up your mind, without anyone looking over your shoulder and asking if you need any help with that.
One of the first things that you should be assured about when making your purchase is the quality of the materials. All of our products have been closely reviewed and tested before being made available on our site. We know our customers expect the best and we wouldn’t want to deliver any less than the very best. We aim to exceed expectations wherever possible at a price that is affordable.
So with the quality guaranteed then what is the first decision that you need to make? Well when it comes to your first sex toy it is first best to break it down to the very basics and that would be if you want a dildo or a vibrator. The majority of women reach orgasm through clitoral stimulation and as such for a beginner a vibrator can often be the best place to start, simply because when you are getting used to something it is generally best to get a big pay off immediately rather than having something you need to work towards – this is sexy time after all, not training for a marathon.
With that in mind we will start tackling the various vibrators that we offer, trying to suggest what may be right for each person. This is no mean feat so we will follow this blog piece up with a second article that continues to detail our products available but we didn’t just want to throw you in there with images of dildos and vibrators overwhelming you!
So without further ado, the vibrators.
Lets start small shall we and work our way up? Well then we come straight to the eggs (Easter is coming up after all) and bullets (insert non creepy witticism here!). At Secret Passion we have a fantastic egg product which is ideal for first timers, the “Loving Joy Dream Eggs” come in a set of three different sizes so are ideal for those who are getting used to the product and later want more of a challenge. Each egg has twelve different functions and with such variety a first time user is guaranteed to find the precise setting and size for her. Highly recommended and at £21.00 this purchase is a gamble that is guaranteed to pay off.
Okay so we mentioned bullets as well as eggs, bullets provide extreme clitoral stimulation and this is one of our favourites that we offer. The “Glace Cuties 7 Function Bullet” not only possesses and extremely effective buzz but it’s wonderful, discreet controller actually lights up, so you need not lose your place as you scroll through the functions! (We just love the person who thought of that feature).
So, eggs and bullets, tiny yet powerful these two toy categories are ideal for people who are tentatively approaching their first purchase and who have not experienced using a clitoral vibration before. Both of the products we have featured – the Glace and the Dream Eggs have the benefit of possessing several different settings which is so important when you are approaching a sex toy for the first time, because obviously not everyone is going to like the same setting. Furthermore, these products are discreet and not intimidating to the first time user and obviously because they are on secretpassion.co.uk, they are affordable so you do not have to worry about re-mortgaging your house to buy something you are not entirely sure you will like. We also picked out these two products because each has a quirky selling point that we feel shows the fun aspect that many sex toys have, the Glace with its light up remote is so practical it’s hardly surprising that it is also highly efficient at producing orgasms with its seven functions. On the other hand the Dream eggs are not only adorably girly in pink but being able to purchase three different sizes in one purchase makes this product one of our favourites for first time buyers.
Obviously we have a lot more products to cover but for now take your time to look around the site, make yourself a cup of tea, put your feet up and take your time looking at the other products we have available. If you can’t wait until our next post then why not jump in the deep end and order the eggs or the bullet, with our Express delivery you could become an expert on your first toy by the time our next instalment is out.
