How to use a Fleshlight for the first time

Fleshlights are one of the ultimate bedroom accessories for men. Realistic and easy to use, a Fleshlight offers a more pleasurable alternative to your hand when it comes to solo sex. Available in a choice of looks, designs, and with a number of options when it comes to the sensations offered, there’s bound to be something for everyone.

If you haven’t used a Fleshlight before it can look a little intimidating and there are some things you need to know before you get started. We know that once your new toy arrives you will be raring to go, but by reading this blog and taking notice of the hints and tips we are offering for use and aftercare, you will have a more mind-blowing experience!

1. Pick up some good lube – make sure that you have some lube to hand and this will make your first experience with your Fleshlight a much smoother experience. Make sure you buy water based lube rather than oil or silicon. This means that the inside of your Fleshlight will remain open for use for a long time.
2. Make sure you have privacy and time to experiment – you want this to be the best experience you have outside of having sex with a real woman, so make sure you have a good window of time to experiment and get used to your new toy – you don’t want to have to rush. Once you get used to it, your Fleshlight can be used for that all important quickie.
3. Warm your Fleshlight before use. The manufacturers of this amazing toy have recommended that you hot things us before you get started. By warming the Fleshlight up in warm water before use you will get a much more lifelike and pleasurable experience.
4. Expect a bit of noise, not yours, although that could very well happen too. But, as can happen when having sex with your partner, air can be pushed inside your Fleshlight and at times this may escape and make a noise, if you are not alone in the house try having some background noise on such as the TV or music – it works, trust us, women have had to do this when using their vibrator for decades!
5. Hygiene and cleaning – make sure that you clean your Fleshlight after each use. This not only ensures that it’s kept hygienic, but it helps your toy stay fresh and able to offer you pleasure for a long time to come. When you have finished using your Fleshlight run it under warm water thoroughly then leave to air dry. NEVER use soap when cleaning your toy, it can cause the inside to degrade. If you want something a little stronger for a more thorough clean, invest in some special toy cleaner.

There is a reason that the Fleshlight has been described as the best sex toy for men. It can give hours of pleasure and, when looked after properly, can last a lifetime. It really is a great investment.