To truly be able to enjoy sex, you need to know exactly what you enjoy and what gets you going. And the most effective way of doing that is alone. As embarrassing as the thought of masturbation may seem it’s a great way explore and discover your sexual preferences.
To begin with experiment with masturbating using your fingers. Apply a small amount of lubricant to your fingers beforehand, as this will make masturbation more comfortable and more pleasurable. Using your fingers gives you maximum control allowing you to explore a variety of strokes and speeds varying the amount of pressure to suit your desires.
If using your fingers doesn’t appeal to you then how about a dildo or vibrator. Dildos and vibrators can often seem like intimidating objects to those who aren’t used to them. However vibrators and dildos come in a variety of different designs to suit multiple needs and desires.
When purchasing your first sex toy, budget will more than likely be an important factor (you don’t want to splash out on a product you’re not sure you’re going to enjoy using). To begin with it’s probably best to experiment with a cheap basic vibrator or bullet and then once you’re comfortable with that, you can move onto more complex, larger toys.
Our crystal clear bullet vibrators make the perfect beginners vibrators. At £2.68 you can’t go wrong. These pretty colourful bullets look far from intimating, and there small enough to fit in your handbag! So they can be easily hidden! These bullets may be small in size but they definitely have plenty of power. Press the bullet against the clitoris and the intense vibrations will send you into waves of orgasmic bliss!
Every woman should own a rabbit vibrator, there the most popular kind of vibrator and once you’ve used one you know why. The fantastic design means you receive dual stimulation. They feature a rotating shaft which has several speed settings and rabbit ears to stimulate the clitoris. A rabbit vibrator will have you screaming with pleasure in no time. Rabbit vibrators are available in a wide variety of brands and designs, the classic Jessica rabbit vibrators being a very popular and reliable choice. However if you’re after your first rabbit on a budget, we’d recommend the Slim purple vibe. It features all the key features of a classic rabbit it’s just slightly slimmer and at a reasonable £20.72.
If you’re still craving more from your orgasm then a G-spot vibrator could be just the thing. G-spot vibrators are designed to stimulate the G-spot. A G-spot orgasm provides a different sensation to a clitoral orgasm as its much more intense. G-spot orgasms can be difficult to reach during sex, that’s what makes G-spot vibrators so special, there perfectly angled to hit the G-spot providing sensational orgasms. If you’re after a powerful G-spot vibrator at a great price then why not try the Ultra 7 G-spot vibe. At only £14.48 it features 7 fabulous settings, making it fantastic value for money.
Once you feel comfortable using vibrators alone, why not suggest using them with a partner, so you can share the fun!
